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"You can not make a child walk before
they are ready.
You can not make a child read
before they are ready.
You can however make a
child think they are dumb
or learn to hate reading
if you push them
before they are capable."
-Stephanie, Throwing Marshmallows
People ask "if
learning to read is so natural, why do we have
illiterate people?"
First, kids have
to be exposed to it. In medieval Europe, or in
the middle of the Amazon,
it can be understood that reading was not widespread.
But in colonial America, where commerce and trading
were king, it was nearly unavoidable. This is
why literacy rates were basically the same as they
are now, in the 21st century, where reading (even
if it's an advertisement) covers almost any surface
available.
Second, kids must
not be discouraged FROM reading. While many believe
that forcing a kid to read will help them do better,
the fact is many kids will end up reading LESS, if
at all. If a kid simply isn't ready to learn, their
constant failure will convince them that they are
stupid, and that there must be something wrong with
them that prevents them from reading. Thus, when the
time comes that they ARE ready, they are already marked
as "learning disabled" by their teachers,
parents, and often, themselves. So sure are they
that they
will never be able to read, they doom themselves
to failure. This goes for any area of learning they
may be pushed into learning before they are ready
to learn it.
Also, if reading is
made to be a "chore", the learner will grow
to dislike it. They will read as little as possible,
and as
a result, will stop reading when they are no longer
forced to do it, further hindering their abilities.
Why do think it is that so few people read for pleasure
after leaving school?
So read to your kids.
Let them see YOU reading and enjoying reading. But
don't force it upon them, or you risk creating a
lifelong
hater
of reading. |